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	<title>Inspiration for your work &#38; life</title>
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		<title>Franklin on Being Lucky</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 10:15:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sam Parker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["Diligence is the mother of good luck."

Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790)
American statesman, scientist, and printer]]></description>
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<p>-Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790)<br />
American statesman, scientist, and printer</p>
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<p><strong>Give more time reminder&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Daylight Saving Time (DST) begins in the U.S. this Sunday, March 14 at 2 am and ends November 7 at 2 am. Be sure to confirm times for all meetings early next week. </p>
<p>Rapport builder: It was Benjamin Franklin who <a href="http://www.webexhibits.org/daylightsaving/franklin.html" target="_blank">originated the idea</a> of DST in 1784 while in Paris (he was 78 years old&#8230; how&#8217;s that for inspiring). <a href="http://www.webexhibits.org/daylightsaving/c.html" target="_blank">Its purpose</a> was to get more value from daylight and conserve energy. </p>
<p>(rapport builders: fun information you can share with colleagues &amp; customers&#8230; or enjoy on your own)</p>
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		<title>Voltaire on Rusting Out</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 10:15:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sam Parker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["Shun idleness. It is the rust that attaches itself to the most brilliant metals."

Voltaire (1694-1778)
French writer, essayist and philosopher]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="quote"><span class="quoteMarks">“</span><strong>Shun idleness.</strong> It is the rust that attaches itself to the most brilliant metals.<span class="quoteMarks">”</span></p>
<p>-Voltaire (1694-1778)<br />
French writer, essayist and philosopher</p>
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<p><strong>Give more brilliance&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Are you sitting on brilliance (waiting for a better day, week, month, year, time to move)?</p>
<p>Be careful to invest your <a href="http://blog.givemore.com/money-hours/">money hours</a> wisely. Time is the only thing you can never get back.</p>
<p>Sure&#8230; There are lottery winners. But that&#8217;s not the way to bet.</p>
<p>(<a href="http://blog.givemore.com/gladwell-on-overnight-success/">Here&#8217;s 3 minutes</a> with Malcolm Gladwell &#8211; author of &quot;Outliers: The Story of Success&quot; &#8211; talking about the work that goes into the &quot;overnight success&quot;.)</p>
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		<title>Edison on The Secret (wink)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 10:15:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sam Parker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration."

Thomas Edison (1847-1931)
American inventor and salesman
frequently worked more than 40 hours straight]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="quote"><span class="quoteMarks">“</span>Genius is 1% inspiration and<br /><strong>99% perspiration.</strong><span class="quoteMarks">”</span></p>
<p>-Thomas Edison (1847-1931)<br />
American inventor and salesman<br />
frequently worked more than 40 hours straight</p>
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<p><strong>Give more thought&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>There&#8217;s nothing more powerful to the business day than enthusiasm. It excites everyone to positive action&#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li>you</li>
<li>your team</li>
<li>the new customer you just brought on board</li>
<li>the internal department responsible for the delivery of what you promised the customer</li>
<li>the receptionist who talks with your customers and associates first</li>
</ul>
<p>As you work with your people today (and tomorrow) your level of enthusiasm will impact all of them (one way or the other). What do you want your impact to be?</p>
<p><strong>TGIS</strong> (thank God it&#8217;s Smonday*)</p>
<p>If you have 2 minutes&#8230; A little inspiring <a href="http://blog.givemore.com/smenthusiasm/">enthusiasm from my boys</a>.</p>
<p>*Smonday: the first business day of the week for a <a href="http://blog.givemore.com/smovish/">Smover</a></p>
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		<title>smEnthusiasm</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 10:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sam Parker</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got this little 212 guy at an event last Spring and gave it to the boys.</p>
<p>They made the best of it. Pure joy.</p>
<p>(the real excitement begins around :48)</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.SmileAndMove.com/rockit?utm_source=gm-blog_smenthusiasm&#038;utm_medium=blog&#038;utm_content=text_be-a-smover">Be a Smover</a>.</p>
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		<title>Francis de Sales on Bouncing Back</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 10:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sam Parker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections, but instantly set about remedying them - every day begin the task anew."

St. Francis de Sales (1567-1622)
French bishop]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="quote"><span class="quoteMarks">“</span>Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections, but instantly set about remedying them &#8211; every day <strong>begin the task anew.</strong><span class="quoteMarks">”</span></p>
<p>-St. Francis de Sales (1567-1622)<br />
French bishop</p>
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<p><strong>Give more resilience&#8230;</strong></p>
<p><strong>resilience</strong>: noun: an ability to recover from or adjust easily to misfortune or change (from <a href="http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/resilience" target="_blank">Merriam-Webster</a>)</p>
<p>We all fail from time-to-time (our doing, some<strong>one</strong> else&#8217;s doing, some<strong>thing</strong> else&#8217;s doing, a combination of each). It&#8217;s life.</p>
<p><strong>To be resilient&#8230;</strong></p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Focus on results.</strong> Embrace the fact that results are what we&#8217;re all really after. Effort and attempts are great first steps, but we need to act with commitment to delivering (just like we want people to do for us).</li>
<li><strong>Make lessons of failures.</strong> Minimize the tendency to make a failure or mistake anything more than a lesson on how not to do something. We need to learn from our mistakes and truly accept them as tuition for succeeding later. And yes&#8230; Our mistakes might put us in a bind at times and have some uncomfortable consequences but again, that&#8217;s real life.</li>
<li><strong>Continue on.</strong> Smarter.</li>
<li><strong>Reinforce.</strong> Support each other (and ourselves) by continually reminding and encouraging one another to deliver on the first three points.</li>
</ol>
<p>That&#8217;s it. Let&#8217;s practice it more.</p>
<p>Encourage resilience and <a href="http://blog.givemore.com/resilience/">email this reminder</a> to someone.</p>
<p>(get the <a href="http://www.givemore.com/Be-Resilient-pocket-cards-10-pack-P121.aspx?utm_source=gm-blog_sales-bouncing-back&#038;utm_medium=blog&#038;utm_content=text_resilience-pocket-card" target="_blank">resilience pocket card</a>)</p>
<p><strong>212ers:</strong> Did you catch last week&#8217;s <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2010/02/26/sports/olympics/20100226-olysymphony.html" target="_blank">New York Times piece</a> on the 212 Olympic margins represented by music?</p>
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		<title>Margaret Mead on Responsibility</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 10:15:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sam Parker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it's the only thing that ever has."

Margaret Mead (1901-1978)
American cultural anthropologist]]></description>
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<p>-Margaret Mead (1901-1978)<br />
American cultural anthropologist</p>
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<p><strong>Give more leadership check&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Are you holding yourself accountable as a leader (with a title or not)?</p>
<p>As leaders, we enjoy the responsibility of helping our people develop in a way that encourages them to hold themselves accountable for their attitudes, their work, and their results.</p>
<p>We need to be as disciplined, resourceful, and resilient in our efforts as we ask our people to be in theirs.</p>
<p>Relentless leadership is embracing the fact that the need for reinforcement never ends and uncomfortable conversations are a necessity. This is how we create something special.</p>
<p>Smile &amp; Lead.</p>
<p>(some of our favorite <a href="http://blog.givemore.com/leadership-by-emerson/">leadership thoughts</a> from Ralph Waldo Emerson)</p>
<p>Today&#8217;s quote is on a <a href="http://www.givemore.com/Note-cards-C11.aspx?utm_source=gm-blog_margaret-mead-earth-shaking&#038;utm_medium=blog&#038;utm_content=text_love-your-people" target="_blank">Love Your People</a>&trade; card.</p>
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		<title>Huxley on Results</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 10:15:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sam Parker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["Do what you can to do what you ought, and leave hoping and fearing alone."

Thomas Henry Huxley (1825-1895)
English biologist and educator]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="quote"><span class="quoteMarks">“</span>Do what you can to <strong>do what<br />you ought,</strong> and leave hoping<br />and fearing alone.<span class="quoteMarks">”</span></p>
<p>-Thomas Henry Huxley (1825-1895)<br />
English biologist and educator</p>
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<p><strong>Give more thought&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>When you need a well-earned break, here&#8217;s a <a href="http://blog.givemore.com/be-more-amazed-complain-less/">hilarious 4.5 minute video</a> clip that speaks to the &quot;<a href="http://www.smileandmove.com/smile/complain-less.aspx?utm_source=gm-blog_huxley-results&#038;utm_medium=blog&#038;utm_content=text_use" target="_blank">complain less</a>&quot; principle of Smile &amp; Move.</p>
<p>Let it help you be more amazed (and maybe pass it along to those who could use a gentle reminder that in many cases, we&#8217;re luckier than we think).</p>
<p>(from comedian Louis CK on Late Night with Conan O&#8217;Brien).</p>
<p>For a different twist on complaints, here&#8217;s 3 minutes from Monty Python&#8217;s classic sketch, <a href="http://blog.givemore.com/four-yorkshiremen/">Four Yorkshiremen</a>.</p>
<p>TGIS (Thank God it&#8217;s Smonday*)</p>
<p>*Smonday is the first day of the week for a <a href="http://blog.givemore.com/smovish/">Smover</a>.</p>
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		<title>Four Yorkshiremen</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 13:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sam Parker</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Monty Python&#8217;s Four Yorkshiremen complain down memory lane&#8230;</p>
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<p>Got a favorite? <a href="mailto:Sparker@GiveMore.com?subject=video%20suggestion">Email us</a>. (Have you seen <a href="http://blog.givemore.com/be-more-amazed-complain-less/">Be More Amazed</a>?)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.givemore.com/ComplainLess-wristband-P28.aspx?utm_source=js-blog-amazed&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_content=image_144x46_band"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.givemore.com/ComplainLess-wristband-P28.aspx?utm_source=js-blog-amazed&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_content=image_complainless_band"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1894" title="ComplainLess" src="http://www.justsell.com/wp-content/uploads/complainless-band.jpg" alt="ComplainLess" width="144" height="46" /></a></p>
<p>Need a <a href="http://www.givemore.com/ComplainLess-wristband-P28.aspx?utm_source=js-blog-amazed&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_content=text_complainless">ComplainLess</a>™ reminder wristband?</p>
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		<title>Seneca on Taking Care of Business</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 10:15:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sam Parker</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["Lay hold of today's task and you will not depend so much upon tomorrow's."

Lucius Annaeus Seneca (4B.C.-65A.D.)
Roman philosopher and statesman]]></description>
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<p>-Lucius Annaeus Seneca (4B.C.-65A.D.)<br />
Roman philosopher and statesman</p>
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<p><strong>Give more days&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>63 &#8211; 64 &#8211; 65 &#8211; 62</p>
<p>Those are your quarterly work days of opportunity for 2010 (254 in all&#8230; give or take a few here and there depending on where you are). </p>
<p>Roughly 21 days per month. (Put like that, it can seem like so few.)</p>
<p>To lose only two each month to fatigue or a desire to wait for a better day to do something, would be to lose more than a full month of work days each year.</p>
<p>Imagine if your income reflected your slow days (and know that it probably does).</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.givemore.com/2010-give-more-work-days/">Use this link</a> to print and post your 2010 work days calendar or get your <a href="http://blog.givemore.com/give-more-months/">Give More months here</a>.</p>
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		<title>Coachable?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 20:12:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sam Parker</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Attitude]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[You don't know everything. You do know that, don’t you? Get some insight on being coachable and check yourself against 8 coachability points.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You don’t know everything.</p>
<p>You do <strong>know</strong> that, don’t you?</p>
<p>Continual learning is a basic necessity to professional improvement and in many cases it’s other people who will help you get there.</p>
<p>But only if you’re coachable. Are you?</p>
<h3>To be coachable means to be…</h3>
<ul>
<li>Approachable</li>
<li>Attentive</li>
<li>Receptive</li>
<li>Curious</li>
<li>Objective</li>
<li>Trusting</li>
<li>Shapeable</li>
<li>Confident</li>
</ul>
<p>It means you must <strong>listen with the intent to learn</strong> rather than to show what you know.</p>
<p>To be coachable means to lack arrogance and defensiveness… to minimize pride and ego. Completely teachable. Completely trainable. Completely malleable.</p>
<p>(Is there anything more frustrating than the know-it-all in the room?)</p>
<p>To be completely perfect, to need no more training or coaching, is to stagnate or die – and in many cases, to be dismissed. To know everything is to be un… believable.</p>
<p>The best professionals at all levels (and in most fields) require coaching to improve and they know it.</p>
<p>Are you one of them? Check yourself with the 8 points below.</p>
<p><strong>Managers</strong>: How much development attention are you giving to your team? 20% of your week would be a full day of nothing but development time… 40% would be two full days, beginning to end.<br />
 <br />
<strong>Professionals</strong>: Don’t have a “coaching” manager? Consider finding a development or accountability partner.</p>
<p>____________________</p>
<h3>A quick 8-point check on your coachability…</h3>
<p>Which of these are true and to what extent?</p>
<ol>
<li>I usually allow my manager and others to complete their sentences before responding. (If you don&#8217;t, it&#8217;s not a good sign.)</li>
<li>When I’m given feedback/ criticism, I usually think about it before responding, waiting just a bit. (If you don&#8217;t, you&#8217;re likely not giving it real consideration.)</li>
<li>When I’m given feedback/ criticism, I rarely find myself defending a position or action immediately. (If this is true, you&#8217;re probably trying to really learn how you can improve.)</li>
<li>When I’m given feedback/ criticism, I ask questions about it in order to try to better understand it. (A good sign.)</li>
<li>I feel my work’s purpose is to serve my external customers. (&#8221;You&#8217;re gonna have to serve somebody.&#8221;&#8211; Bob Dylan)</li>
<li>I feel my work’s purpose is to serve my internal customers (managers, colleagues, other departments).</li>
<li>I’ve changed/ revised my position/ approach because of the advice of another individual. (If not, how coachable do you really think you are? No one is always right.)</li>
<li>My manager invests time in my professional development (If s/he doesn’t, it might be because of a perception that you&#8217;re uncoachable).</li>
</ol>
<p>There’s no rating scale here. These questions are simply meant to raise awareness (when answered as objectively and truthfully).</p>
<p>____________________</p>
<h3>A quick habit to improve your coachability…</h3>
<p>After you’re given feedback/ criticism, before responding, ask a question…</p>
<ul>
<li>How do you mean?</li>
<li>Can you tell me more about that?</li>
<li>Can we talk that through so I understand it better?</li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<p><strong>Now go be coachable.~&gt;</strong></p>
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